The day I wasn't fired
I was a newly graduated Physical Education teacher, and I considered myself self-sufficient in my newly chosen profession.
I landed my first full-time job thanks to the generosity of the school's owner, who always said it was important to give a first opportunity to some of the employees he hired. It was genuine kindness — there was no salary difference between a veteran and a newly hired staff member.
One day, at the peak of my confidence, I made one of the most absurd mistakes a teacher can make.
I took a student's word for it — a 12 or 13-year-old (I can't remember exactly) — and took him to a game off school grounds without written authorization from his guardians.
When we returned, the mother was outraged — and rightfully so.
And so was the entire school administration.
However, instead of being fired, I received a verbal warning — one of those where dismissal might actually have felt gentler.
Behind closed doors with both owners. A well-delivered reprimand, delivered without disrespect, taking into account my inexperience and the arrogance typical of someone freshly out of school.
After that, 14 years went by without a single reprimand.
That experience taught me a great deal about how to treat young talent with patience and how to give people opportunities.
