Do you know when it's time to stop and seek balance? Let's talk a little about my "jubilee"
Did you know that the concept of a sabbatical year and jubilee has biblical origins (Exodus 20:8-11, 23:10-11 and Leviticus 25:8-55)?
This guidance was given directly by God to mankind so that work would be approached wisely, respecting time for rest and physical and mental recovery — and it extends to nature itself and to animals.
The truth is, however, that as a society we romanticize hard work and exhaustion, and for many people it is considered a mark of importance and social status — much like the famous character Rochelle from the acclaimed American sitcom "Everybody Hates Chris," where she brags to her friends about her husband "having two jobs," despite his never spending time with the family. We tell ourselves and our families comfortable lies: "If I'm not there, things don't get done," "Results only come with great effort and dedication," or "I don't know anyone successful who works less than 12 hours a day." And worse: we actually believe them!
In 2017, after 30 uninterrupted years of work, I decided to break that cycle. I stepped down from a significant executive position with a high salary to live my own "jubilee." My wife and I planned it all out, packed our bags, and moved to Spain. I completed a master's degree at the University of Barcelona, she pursued a postgraduate program in her field, and above all, we shared two and a half years of intense, unforgettable time with our two children. At the time, many people questioned my decision, but I had the full support of my family — which was tremendously important — and we were clear about our priorities. I believe that had I continued at the pace I was going, burnout would have been a very real possibility. Looking back with a broader perspective, I'm certain our decision and experience were overwhelmingly positive.
I returned to the corporate market as soon as it ended, with renewed energy, a wealth of knowledge, rich cultural experiences, and a mind ready for the next challenges. The company where I had worked continued to thrive without me. I had fulfilled my role and built structured teams and processes so that other executives could take the next strategic steps.
The lesson to take away: the market will always find someone to replace you quickly — sometimes someone even better suited to the company's next chapter. But your physical health, your mental well-being, and quality time with your family are irreplaceable. Keep in mind that seeking this balance is essential, and whenever necessary, take a break to "recharge your batteries." If you have the opportunity, plan and take your own "jubilee year" or "sabbatical period."
And you? Are you listening to the signals your body and mind are sending, or are you still romanticizing overwork and buying into the myth that it benefits your career?
